Schillok wrote:
You are right, I contradicted myself who is more mature.

Well, Ran is more mature in a sense concerning how serious, realistic and sensible she is. And Shinichi in terms of how independendent, resourceful and focused he can be.
Both have their childish sides, wheather it is ghosts and myths for Ran or how playful Shinichi can become when solving a case.
But... what were we discussing again?
Ohh... yeah... how mature Ai and Mitsuhiko are and if their mind will become close enough in a few years or if Ai will stay too far ahead of him.
As you said, Ai has a head start of them and will always stay ahead of them since she had one childhood (how good or bad that one might have been). Well, the good thing is that her mature mind will also influence the Detective Boys kids so they might progress a bit faster too. And as I said, reliving your childhood again is not the same as living the live of a person in her 20s.
I believe in Mitsuhiko, I think he will catch up close enough with her that they will understand each other. That is, if he is given the chance.
It's a cute pairing and it would mean that Ai got finally over her past. All they need is time... and some turn of events in their favour.
Ran isn't even more realistic. Her view on most things are very unrealistic. Sometimes, people are stuck with responsibilities, and think immaturely about them. She is domestic, I'll give her that, and has the skills to know how to be a housewife. If you're saying she takes relationships seriously, I can see that, do to her parents' relationship, but she thinks unrealistically about Shinichi's feelings and actions toward her.
Living on his own, Shinichi takes care of himself and probably has the same chores Ran has. He has to cook, clean that LARGE house on his own, and is responsible for getting himself around and to school. He just hasn't experienced the same traumatic experience Ran has, but do you need traumatic experiences to be mature? Ai and Ran's life has been traumatic, causing some emotional instability......Shinichi doesn't understand that....which in some cases, Shinichi isn't good for either......The only thing he's ever been through was the BO mess......anyone in favor of the AixRan pairing?

I don't think Shinichi is as strong as Ai or Ran or understanding, but Shinichi is a little more mature than Ran. I think Ai is more mature than Shinichi, not only has she been through a traumatic experience, is an intellectual, but she's also a year older

And she takes her courses wisely. She is by far more mature. Shinichi just runs into daring situations blindly and daringly, which is very immature.....
Ai and Mitsu would only work out if Haibara totally lets go of herself. But that would only be on the outside anyway, without expressing her sarcastic opinions. She would still be living a lie. She knows she will be a child for selfish reasons: so she can relive her childhood. Why is that selfish? Because no one else can reverse time and do it over. I'm sure if all those criminals had the choice, they would reverse time and start over again too, but the thing is, experiences we have effect us, no matter how young we try to make ourselves, or how far back in time we try to travel. That is why it'd be best for her to face the truth of herself: she is not a child. She is not Haibara. She is Shiho Miyano. Lying to herself, and trying to forget all that has happened is unfair too, and not good for constructing her life after the BO fiasco. Her experience had a reason behind it, and overcoming that is whats made her stronger and more mature.
Right now she has had the chance to be a child again, but a child has to grow up eventually. I think she will have to face being Shiho eventually, whether she wants to or not. She can't reverse time, it'll follow her around wherever she goes. With this heavy weight on her shoulder, I don't think she will end up with Mitsuhiku, but someone twice her age, if she decides to stay young-looking.