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First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 1:34 am
by Eve
It's Japan related, and it's a issue up for debating, so gross or not gross?  :-\

My Chinese side of the family thinks it's okay, my English side, not really, they are half and half on this...  :-\

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 1:36 am
by Abs.
Isn't that what the Hatamoto Family case was all about?  :-\

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 1:43 am
by Eve
Abs. wrote: Isn't that what the Hatamoto Family case was all about?  :-\
Well the guy she married wasn't the cousin, if I remember correctly, she married the employee, her cousin has a crush on her

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 2:58 am
by ranger
that's pretty gross Khinkhun

and you have cool ethnicities 8)

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 4:13 am
by Azu
It depends?

My grandmother has once told me about cousin marraige. It really depends. For example, she says my brother can marry my female cousin but I can't marry my male cousin. -.-''. Guess I need to ask her why.

I personally think that if you like your cousin, why not? /: . I think it's better than Siblings getting married.

Oh yeah, my grandmother is a Chinese. :).

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 5:06 am
by Abs.
Khinkhun wrote:
Abs. wrote: Isn't that what the Hatamoto Family case was all about?   :-\
Well the guy she married wasn't the cousin, if I remember correctly, she married the employee, her cousin has a crush on her
You are forgetting something!   :P

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 6:17 am
by Callid
Well, I don't see any problem in there, apart from the biological ones that appear only if first-cousin marriage is repeated by several generations. However, as all my cousins are male, my ability to understand this subject is logically limited.

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 7:52 am
by CarpetCrawler
Abs. wrote:
Khinkhun wrote:
Abs. wrote: Isn't that what the Hatamoto Family case was all about?  :-\
Well the guy she married wasn't the cousin, if I remember correctly, she married the employee, her cousin has a crush on her
You are forgetting something!  :P
Indeed! The cousin's parents were cousins themselves!

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 9:55 am
by baka1412
Let see... I've read Onichan-Control, Oreimo, Imouto wa shinsuki, Aki Sora, Brocon, Chokotto Sister, Kiss x Sis..

Nuff said, you guys should already know which side I'm supporting.. (Manga-wise though -_- )

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 10:48 am
by GinRei
baka1412 wrote: Kiss x Sis
Not blood related.

Anyway, I'm pretty sure biological defects still have a pretty high chance of occurring in first cousin relations.  There's still a direct blood relation there.

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 11:06 am
by baka1412
GinRei wrote:
baka1412 wrote: Kiss x Sis
Not blood related.
Still, the "Incest'/"Sibling Love/Blood Related" concept applied in the series..

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 11:21 am
by alicetama
Uh... in terms of real life, Eleanor Rosevelt and FDR got married, and they were first cousins.(Or was it distant? I forgot.)

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 11:37 am
by Kleene Onigiri
When I was ~5, I wanted to marry my cousin D: I didn't know you can't or that it's considered "gross". When someone told me I was like: NUUUUUUUUUUU D:

Well, I wouldn't mind. It's just because of the genetic defects you'll get out of that.
The gross part is just something people "learned" from society.

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 11:44 am
by CarpetCrawler
GinRei wrote: Anyway, I'm pretty sure biological defects still have a pretty high chance of occurring in first cousin relations.  There's still a direct blood relation there.
Correct.

Re: First cousin marriage, Gross or not?

Posted: July 19th, 2010, 12:26 pm
by Eve
ranger wrote: that's pretty gross Khinkhun

and you have cool ethnicities 8)
Why "gross" they are not actual siblings right?
Azu wrote: It depends?

My grandmother has once told me about cousin marraige. It really depends. For example, she says my brother can marry my female cousin but I can't marry my male cousin. -.-''. Guess I need to ask her why.

I personally think that if you like your cousin, why not? /: . I think it's better than Siblings getting married.

Oh yeah, my grandmother is a Chinese. :).
Nice!, my grandmother (father's side) thinks so too, although it's strange you can't marry your male cousin considering a female cousin is allow to marry your brother.
CarpetCrawler wrote:
GinRei wrote: Anyway, I'm pretty sure biological defects still have a pretty high chance of occurring in first cousin relations.  There's still a direct blood relation there.
Correct.
Then it's not a really a "gross" thing, just the risk of bearing defects... hmm....
CarpetCrawler wrote:
Abs. wrote:
Khinkhun wrote:
Abs. wrote: Isn't that what the Hatamoto Family case was all about?  :-\
Well the guy she married wasn't the cousin, if I remember correctly, she married the employee, her cousin has a crush on her
You are forgetting something!  :P
Indeed! The cousin's parents were cousins themselves!
Ah crrap! that's right! XD thx, well they turned out okay XD (in a way)